Don’t Confuse “Creating Your Own Reality” With The Law of Attraction
A VERY IMPORTANT NOTE FOR YOU: My TEDx talk on “How to Stop Suffering” has just been posted on line. You can find it at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sMdVM-t5kFs. This is the most useful and most important talk I have even given. I urge you to watch it. You will get significant personal value from it. And if you think it is an idea worth spreading, please send the link to people on your email list and tell your Facebook and Twitter friends about it also. It would be great if millions of people learned how to stop suffering. I’d appreciate your help. [...]
Joe Vitale and I discuss the Law of Attraction
“What is your understanding of the Law of Attraction?” I asked Joe Vitale. He has become a good friend who I really love and admire. He and his wife Nerissa had traveled from their home in Texas to visit my wife Shelly and me for the weekend. Over dinner one night we talked about a wide variety of topics, including Internet marketing, spirituality, and relationships. I asked this specific question because I knew that Joe had written extensively on the Law of Attraction (LOA) and I wanted to hear his thoughts. Over the years I have gone from totally believing [...]
Stop being run by your feelings
At one point or another, everyone has uttered the words: “I am happy.” And: “I am upset.” Notice what happens when you say: “I am [something].” You are describing yourself. Any words that follow the statement “I am” is your description of yourself. Moreover, when we say, “I am [something],” it feels as if we really are that “something.” It feels as if our entire being is happy, or upset, or anxious, or any other emotion we say we are. But is that really who we are? Most readers of my weekly blog have eliminated at least one belief using [...]
Why do you have relationship problems?
Thanks so much for the many thoughtful responses to my post last week asking you how we can contribute to improving your life. The single most common response had to do with relationships. Unfortunately, there is no simple advice I can offer in this area for several reasons. Different types of relationship problems To begin with, many of the beliefs men have that serve as barriers to having a great relationship are different from the beliefs women have. Moreover, relationships have a lot of different aspects, such as: • men can have a hard time approaching women, • both men [...]
Attract Money Now
If you are a reader of my weekly blog, you probably are interested primarily in personal/spiritual growth, by which I mean improving the quality of your life and/or becoming more spiritual, achieving more success, by which I mean earning more money or having an abundance of wealth in your life. Negative, limiting beliefs are a barrier to both goals, but I usually tend to write more about the first goal. Today I want to focus more on the second one. Over the weekend I read a book by Joe Vitale, a friend of mine and one of the people I [...]
Get The Law of Attraction To Work For You
This past week I was attending my bi-annual meeting of the Transformational Leadership Council in New Orleans. At one point I was talking to Paul Scheele of Learning Strategies about the important distinction between inspiration, which comes from who we really are (consciousness, the “creator”) and intention, which comes from who we think we are (the ego, the “creation”). (See my recent blog post where I discuss this distinction in detail: https://www.mortylefkoe.com/create-happiness/.) In the middle of the conversation I had a thought that might explain why the Law of Attraction works sometimes and not other times. When you are [...]
How Things Occur For Us
I generally know when I’m about to have a breakthrough, when there is a new process or way of understanding something that is on the verge of taking shape. I have glimpses of ideas and I have a sense of connections that I can’t quite put my finger on. But I know if I stay with it, something new and useful ultimately will take shape. That’s where I am now. I think I’m about to come up with something very useful, and I’m not sure what it is yet. So I thought I would share with you some ideas [...]
