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How can you end negative feelings without the danger of suppressing them?

Some time ago, I said to an acquaintance "It's possible to give up having negative emotions" and he said, "But if you suppress your feelings [...]

By Morty Lefkoe|Tuesday, October 27, 2015|Categories: Uncategorized|Tags: ambition, anger, atherosclerotic plaques, coronary artery disease, cynical mistrust, dissolving meaning, Dr. Lynda H. Powell, emotions, hostility, LBP, LDL Cholesterol, Lefkoe Belief Process, Lefkoe Freedom Process, Lefkoe Institute, Morty Lefkoe, Rush University, suppressing emotions, Tedx, The Lefkoe Method, TLM|5 Comments

What do you know that others think is untrue?

A few days ago I read a fascinating cover story in Fast Company magazine on Peter Thiel. Peter is a billionaire investor who co-founded PayPal, [...]

By Morty Lefkoe|Thursday, October 16, 2014|Categories: Uncategorized|Tags: Airbnb, anger, beliefs, change, conditioning, conflict, dissolve meaning, emotions, Facebook, failure, Fast Company, innovations, innovators, LBP, Lefkoe Belief Process, Lefkoe Institute, LinkedIn, meaning, mistakes, Morty Lefkoe, negative emotions, PayPal, Peter Thiel, procrastination, relationships, resist, resistance, SpaceX, Spotify, stimulus conditioning, stress, Tedx, The Lefkoe Method, TLM, Zero to One|2 Comments

Suppressing negative emotions is unhealthy

A couple of days ago when I told someone it is possible to totally stop having negative emotions, he replied: “But if you suppress your [...]

By Morty Lefkoe|Tuesday, October 7, 2014|Categories: Uncategorized|Tags: ambition, anger, atherosclerotic plaques, coronary artery disease, cynical mistrust, dissolving meaning, Dr. Lynda H. Powell, emotions, hostility, LBP, LDL Cholesterol, Lefkoe Belief Process, Lefkoe Freedom Process, Lefkoe Institute, Morty Lefkoe, Rush University, suppressing emotions, Tedx, The Lefkoe Method, TLM|9 Comments

I spoke at TEDx: How to stop suffering

For the past couple of months my main focus has been preparing a TEDx talk that I delivered in Hoboken, NJ last Friday, June 28. [...]

By Morty Lefkoe|Tuesday, July 2, 2013|Categories: Occurring|Tags: anger, anxiety, Buddha, dissolve meaning, emotions, feelings, Lefkoe Institute, meaning, Morty Lefkoe, negative emotions, suffering, Tedx, TEDxHoboken, The Lefkoe Method|13 Comments

Why some get angry and others fear it.

The first time I really allowed myself to experience my anger I fainted. I was about 36 and had successfully suppressed my anger since childhood. [...]

By Morty Lefkoe|Tuesday, March 27, 2012|Categories: Uncategorized|Tags: anger, beliefs, change, childhood, conditioning, LBP, Lefkoe Belief Process, Lefkoe Institute, meaning, Morty Lefkoe, negative self-esteem, parent, parenting, survival strategies, The Lefkoe Method, TLM, Who Am I Really?|29 Comments

Why do you have relationship problems?

Thanks so much for the many thoughtful responses to my post last week asking you how we can contribute to improving your life. The single [...]

By Morty Lefkoe|Tuesday, September 13, 2011|Categories: Uncategorized|Tags: anger, law of attraction, Lefkoe Belief Process, Morty Lefkoe, recreateyourlife.com, relationships, sex, WAIR?|33 Comments

Why Do We Need To Create Meaning?

Why do we usually make up a meaning for events that have no inherent meaning? And how does that automatic, unconscious meaning-making process create problems [...]

By Morty Lefkoe|Tuesday, July 19, 2011|Categories: Uncategorized, Values|Tags: anger, anxiety, beliefs, Lefkoe Belief Process, meaning, Morty Lefkoe, occurring, The Lefkoe Method, values|48 Comments

Why we have negative emotions … and what to do about them

For many years I had asked myself the questions: What is the real source of our negative emotions? Why do so many things cause fear [...]

By Morty Lefkoe|Tuesday, August 3, 2010|Categories: Uncategorized|Tags: anger, anxiety, conditioning, emotions, envy, fear, guilt, jealously, Lefkoe Belief Process, Lefkoe Stimulus Process, mistake, mistakes, negative emotions, Pavlov, phobia, phobias, sadness, shame, The Lefkoe Method, TLM|30 Comments

How to get rid of your fears

I want to deeply thank the hundreds of you who shared intimate details about how your lives have been run by your fears and anger. [...]

By Morty Lefkoe|Tuesday, May 18, 2010|Categories: Fear, Occurring|Tags: anger, anxiety, beliefs, conditioning, fear, happiness, LBP, Lefkoe Belief Process, Lefkoe Institute, Lefkoe Occurring Process, meaning, The Lefkoe Method|86 Comments

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