In last week’s post I asked why most people don’t learn how to dissolve meaning when it makes such a profound improvement in their life and when they can learn the basic steps for doing without having to pay anything.  That question resulted in over 50 responses so far.  Thanks for taking the time to answer.  I was fascinated reading all the different reasons people suggested.

And that made me think:

bigstock-Road-Sign-Of-New-Life-And-Old--081313How many things in your life that don’t really work have you accepted because, “That’s just the way things are”?  Is your life—the way it is right now—working for you? 

Is thinking you are your thoughts and feelings and being run by them instead of noticing that you have thoughts and feelings working for you?

Is living with the stress and suffering caused by the meaning you give events all day long working for you?

Is having a bunch of negative beliefs that cause procrastination, a lack of confidence, fear of public speaking, fear of rejection, etc. working for you?

Is allowing fear to prevent you from doing the things you dream of doing working for you?

Is living with a concern about what others think of you and needing to do things just to be liked and accepted working for you?

If these situations don’t work for you, get rid of them

Most people in the world live with at least a couple if not most of these situations.  Despite the fact that living that way is not working for them, most people are not doing much if anything to get rid of them.  If this is true for you and any part of your reason is that you didn’t know you could quickly and easily eliminate those situations, the purpose of this post is to let you know that you can.

You can get rid of every one of them by eliminating a few beliefs, de-conditioning a few conditionings, or dissolving the meaning we give moment-to-moment events.

One of my favorite quotes has always been (Werner Erhard was the first person I heard say it): “You can either have what you want or all the reasons why you don’t have it.”  The reasons can make you feel “right,” but not very happy.  Why not choose to have what you want?

If living with these situations is not working for you and if very little is required to eliminate the situations that sabotage your happiness, don’t wait any longer.  Get rid of them.  Now.

Thanks for reading my blog.  Please post your questions or comments about some of the situations in your life that aren’t working for you.  Let us know either why you aren’t doing anything to get rid of them or what you intend to do to eliminate them once and for all.  I’d really like to hear stories of how you eliminated some of these situations from your life.

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