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During the past few weeks we have been conducting a little study to determine how effective our free on-line belief-elimination program is.
We know from our one-on-one sessions that The Lefkoe Method is effective with about 90% of the people who use it. We’ve been offering a money-back guarantee to people who come to us to get rid of their fear of public speaking and only about 10% of the almost 2,000 clients who had that problem have requested a refund. And in informal follow-ups with clients who come to us with other problems at least nine out of ten clients continue to describe significant changes in their lives months later.
But from blog comments and emails from people who eliminated one or more beliefs on our free belief-elimination site, it seemed that the effectiveness rate was much lower.
So we conducted a study and asked people to click one of three links at the end of the process that eliminated a free belief. Here’s what we found. Belief was eliminated: 44%. Not sure if belief was eliminated: 44%. Belief was not eliminated: 14%.
This result was totally inconsistent with our experience with clients in one-on-one sessions. The 14% who said the belief was still there was close to our experience. But the number who were convinced the belief was gone was only about half of our experience. So we asked people who participated in the study if they were willing to be interviewed so we could solve this mystery.
I’ve spent a lot of time on the phone for the past few days talking to people who had clicked the “not sure” button, and here’s what I discovered.
What I Just Did Is Impossible
Almost all of the people I spoke to said that the words of the belief felt different at the end of the Lefkoe Belief process, but they just couldn’t tell if the belief was “really eliminated.” Almost all of them said something like: I didn’t expect it to work so quickly after having the belief so long.
I then asked, “Do you have the belief: Change is difficult and takes a long time?” They all answered, yes. The mystery was getting solved. They had the belief that what they had just done (totally getting rid of a belief they had lived with since childhood) was impossible.
That reminded me of what I had discovered during the University of Arizona research study with subjects who had a fear of public speaking. After they eliminated all the beliefs and conditionings that usually cause a fear of public speaking, I would ask them to imagine a talk in the future and to rate their level of fear on a scale of 1-10, 1 being no fear at all and 10 being terror. (The average for all the subjects at the start of the study was 7.) Most of the subjects said 2-4. Given the beliefs (and conditionings) they had eliminated, they should have said 1-2.
As I talked to the study subjects and asked a lot of questions, I started hearing comments like: Well, I can’t expect to get rid of a fear I’ve lived with for a lifetime in just a few hours.
So I added one more belief to the list of beliefs we used with the subjects: Change is difficult and takes a long time. After the subjects eliminated that belief (along with the others) the level of imagined fear dropped to 1-2. (That, by the way, was also the level they reported after they actually delivered a speech in public.)
Do I Feel The Belief in Real Life Situations?
The next thing I discovered from my phone interviews was that people were testing whether or not the belief was true by looking into their lives to check, which is one useful way to check.
Unfortunately, instead of imagining events in the future to see if the belief still seemed to be there, people were recalling events in the past when they felt the belief.
Because the belief actually did exist in the past, it felt to many people as if the belief was not gone. In order to see if the belief is gone, you need to imagine a future incident, the type that usually brought up feelings caused by the belief, to see if you still feel the belief.
When I did this exercise with the people who weren’t sure if the belief was gone, almost all agreed that it was.
But I Still Have The Problem
Some people had a sense that the belief was gone, but thought it couldn’t really be because they still didn’t feel good about themselves. These people thought that the belief—I’m not good enough or I’m not important—couldn’t have really disappeared if they still had any negative feelings about themselves.
I explained to them that one can have many other negative beliefs about oneself—such as I’m not capable, I’m not worthy, Nothing I do is good enough, and I’m powerless—and getting rid of one negative self-esteem belief doesn’t automatically get rid of all the others. You have to get rid of each of the negative self-esteem beliefs you have before a negative sense of yourself will be totally eliminated, even though you will feel better about yourself in some way after eliminating each belief.
I Just Can’t Be Sure
In conversation after conversation, the people I talked to said: “I just couldn’t be sure. The words felt different, but I couldn’t say for sure if the belief was really gone.”
There is an exercise my wife Shelly created to help clients determine if a belief really is gone. She asks them to say the words “I’m a woman,” if they are a woman, or “I’m a man,” if they are a man. Then she tells them to say the words: “I’m a monkey.”
The client is then able to notice how it feels to say a statement that feels true versus a statement that feels false.
After Shelly asks them to say the words of the belief they just worked on, she asks them: Does your belief feel like saying “I’m a man/woman” or like saying “I’m a monkey.”
Because the first statement about being a man or woman is obviously true and the second about being a monkey is obviously false, this gives people a reference point to compare the belief to. That is usually enough for most people to conclude that, in fact, the belief really is gone.
I Thought I Had Eliminated a Belief Before, But It Came Back
Finally, several people I spoke to said the belief did feel gone after the process, but they had done other exercises in the past where it seemed that beliefs had been eliminated, and then after they went back into life, the belief came back (or perhaps it never really had been eliminated). Because of that experience, they were hesitant to say the belief was gone even though they felt as if it was.
So based on what people who weren’t sure if their belief was really gone told us, we will revise our video belief-elimination process to include what I learned from those of you I spoke to. I want to thank al of you who participated in our study for your support. Your feedback will help people realize that, in fact, many more of them really did eliminate a belief in just a few minutes that they had lived with since childhood.
Our commitment is to have at least 90% of all people who use our on-line and DVD processes experience the belief disappearing.
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I have a suggestion for your consideration to include in your Elimination of Beliefs program. I think it could work with beliefs such as ‘I’m not good enough”.. I would like to see a section added to have the participant look into their past for examples of where “I was good enough”.. evidence to the contrary.. the purpose would be to supplant a negative belief (I’m not good enough) with a more positive belief (I am often good enough)
At the end of the section where you eliminate the belief, and before you move on to the WAIR, I think it would be valuable to add a section to evaluate past examples where the opposite could be true.. this would not just eliminate the negative belief, but would also introduce concepts to allow the participant to form more positive beliefs.
Très intéressant Margaeat. Développer un nouveau réflexe de se définir positivement est parfois limité tant par notre vécu que par un manque de mots pour le faire.
La croyance n’est pas partie.
Je sais que j’ai la croyance: je ne suis pas capable
et je ne suis pas parfaite donc je ne mérite pas cela. Alors je fuis, je m’isole et j’ai peur.
Morty,
I am a 65-year-old woman who has been struggling for years with issues of personal unhappiness and harmful core beliefs. When I stumbled across your website, I was ready to try anything. The results of the 35 minutes or so that I invested in getting rid of “I’m not good enough” were spectacular to say the least!
For me, a whole interconnected web of beliefs came crashing down. For the first time in many, many years I now feel inner peace, an absence of anxiety, and a knowing that I am in charge of my own life. A number of less powerful but related beliefs have already cropped up, and I’m able to deal with them very, very quickly.
How do I know they are completely eliminated? The disappearance of my anxiety is one way. Another way has been to imagine myself in similar situations in the future, and these imaginings no longer arouse any concern at all. Also, I am already automatically interpreting events much differently than before. I’m giving myself many different interpretations and then selecting the most positive and the most happiness-producing one to believe. For the first time in forever, I really believe that I am part of a loving and creative universe where anything is possible and everything is open to me.
I have embarked on a process of restructuring my inner/outer life, and my new creative freedom has left me contemplating how I wish to define my new self. Because I am now the conscious interpreter and creator of my experiences, there are new questions of morality and ethics to answer. I can’t just fall back on my childhood misery to account for my actions in the world.
I am also very interested in exploring how to integrate your method into what I know about what might be called non-ordinary reality. Most manifestation work begins with eliminating harmful core beliefs, but I have never read a reliable method for doing so until you came along. And, for me personally this all couldn’t have come at a better time, so it’s a nice confirmation of the saying “When the student is ready, the teacher will appear.”
When you read this, Morty, I hope you will know how much good you are doing in the world. I have been spreading the word and sending all my friends as well as my golf teacher to your website. Thank you, my friend, thank you.
Of course, the true test of all your work is indeed on the golf course, so I’ll be trying it out when next I face my 3-wood. That will surely be your greatest accomplishment!
Admiringly,
Ellen
Hi Ellen,
Thanks for taking the time to write to me in such detail. I am thrilled to hear our work has made such a profound difference in your life. Thanks also for telling others about our work.
And it does apply to golf. Take a look at our niche site: http://improvegolfperformance.com.
Love, Morty
I have not been able to log on to your free analysis site. It does not come up with a questionaire. Don’t know what my problem is. Do I need some site on my computer that I don’t have? I do not have this problem with anything else that I try to access.
Sincerely, Bonnie Seevers
Hi Bonnie,
SOrry you are having a problem.
The site is working as many people access it daily. You might try shutting your browser and rebooting your computer. Go to http://recreateyourlife.com. Enter your name and email address and chose the belief you want to eliminate.
Love,Morty
Marty I can’t afford $250.00 for your DVD program. Does your book explain the same principles?
Hi Mike,
My book describes the process, but it is unlikely that you will be able to do it yourself from reading the book.
You can get the $199 package, which you can get for $75 a month for three months. That is the least expensive way to get the 19 beliefs and 4 conditionings.
Thanks for your interest in our work.
Love, Morty
Hello Morty, I have another suggestion to help find out if it’s gone or not. Using a very simple method of kinesiology on one’s self. first
ask if your name is whatever, standing very relaxed and see if your body leans forward or backward. You can ask a series of questions and yes is usually forward, and no usually backward. If you ask your subconscious if “I am not important” is gone, (take your time), if it is your body will sway forward. I just did it after reading your email, and
it worked for me. If you want to talk more,
my name is Julia, and you can email me and I will give you my telephone number.
I think this will work.
Wow Julia!!! That is crazy!! almost as crazy as TLM! I asked a series of questions, yes no, obvious ones, generic ones. Yes, I swayed forward. No, I swayed backwards. Then I went through the beliefs I eliminated with TLM and they were all gone according to your mystery method. What is that called? How’d you learn about it? Thanks!
Hi Morty
I was glad to have the opportunity to comment because I want to say thank you to you. How amazing synchronicities weave themselves. Despite having worked on myself for a number of years I am still left with limiting beliefs. I have been working recently on my purpose, clarifying it because I feel like I know what it is but haven’t been sure. Anyway I am sure my limiting beliefs have been at play with that one too. So I read an article all about discovering your purpose and it was from there that I clicked through to you.
At first I thought it was going to be like the usual program that I have seen so many times before where you are dangled that promise of getting to grips with eliminating your limiting beliefs only then to be disappointed or charged a lot of money you can’t afford at the time to do so! I mean a lot of limiting beliefs manifest around money and so its just refreshing to me that you offer this program completely free of charge….and more importantly IT WORKS!!!
I read your blog post today and thought, yes that was totally me, I mean I noticed a real shift and totally felt like I had eliminated the belief ‘I am not good enough’ but then there was that thought, ‘oh my, how could that possibly be so, its been there my whole life!’
I’ve written my first book recently but its been a rocky road and to be honest my limiting beliefs have had a lot to do with how the book has been published, the publishing company I ended up going with and how impossible its been to get the book into the market…..I haven’t been sure that writing is my thing at all and have gone back and forth with what I really want.
The day after I did the free eliminating beliefs program I sat down and started making notes and in two days came up with the storyline and three strong character profiles, a title, cover design idea and started writing my second book, completely sure in the fact that yes my destiny is to be an author and whats more I think I am totally good enough to do that…..the changes that I have noticed in the past two days are just spectacular. The changes are definitely within, in my responses to situations where I would automatically assume the worst before because of my old belief. I know there are more and I think that the larger program would suit me, where I could eliminate all the beliefs I know I have but for now this is just amazing.
Not surprisingly my sister has exactly the same beliefs as I do and I sent her an email last night to tell her how I think it could help her. She sent me an email this morning to say she didn’t go to the gym today, she decided to have an emotional workout instead and did the free program and was blown away…..she felt the same and said its just sinking in how huge this really is.
Thank you again.
Regards, Shelley Costello
Hi Morty,
I did try my best to get rid of one my harmful beliefs using your method, unfortunately, as I am not a native speaker of English ( I can write and read pretty well in English) yet still have problems with speaking and appreheding the oral speach in a language foreign to me (I am an Ukrainian and live in Ukraine). I do not know if reading would had the same effect as Audio program, and I don’t know if you have the same readable program. Anyway, thank you for this great job, I wish I could find something like this in Ukrainian or Russian language so people who are interested in self-growth from these countries could use your method and be grateful for such helpful material. Well, I have not given up yet and ready to listen it untill I understand everything up to the last single word:) The best of luck and inspiration for making new wonderful projects,
Regards,
Lidia
Morty,
when I did the exercise, I argued with it. I hedged with qualifiers. I mentally resisted the process!
I went through the change ur belief test and read the article, I web tested the ‘i am a woman test vs. M a monkey test’ but I still don’t feel like there is any change in me! I don’t feel any different maybe my sub concious is really locked and I need a test that is going to unlock it so that I can be able to remove the beliefs locked in there
Hi Patricia,
I suggest you try one of the other free beliefs. The process works for almost everyone if you follow each step. There is no such thing as a subconscious that is locked.
Sometimes we have a hard time believing that the belief is gone so easily and quickly when it really is gone.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty, I went through one of your free beliefs and I couldn’t connect with how you related the belief stems from your childhood, i.e. perhaps unsupportive parents. My memories of childhood include very supportive parents as a child and now as an adult.
Will your belief system still help me if this is the case?
So I went through the “I’m not important” process and I could really appreciate the idea that there are several possible alternatives to “I’m not important” like my parents didn’t have good parenting skills and so on. However, the problem in my life has been not only the mistakes my parents have made but the fact that others (many others) have treated me bad for no reason. I actually became very depressed after going through the process the other day and I wonder if that is because there are other worse beliefs I have. Maybe these sorts of things don’t work for people if they have been told they are not supposed to exist? Afterall, if you weren’t supposed to be born how can anything adjust your thinking or be right for you?
Hi Cindy,
You, like most others, probably have a lot of negative beliefs from childhood. Eliminating one is useful, but not sufficient to make a significant change in your life.
We’ve worked with many people who were unwanted, given away in childhood, etc. and the belief-elimination process works just fine with them. I’m sure it works with you also.
To get rid of many common negative self-estem beliefs and conditionings, check out http://recreateyourlife.com/naturalconfidence.
For information about private phone or Skype sessions, call us at 415-884-0552.
It is possible to transform your life, no matter how bad your childhood, I promise.
Love, Morty
I found your site yesterday and decided to take the free “I’m not good enough” online program. I have been on a personal healing quest for over 20 years and yet still struggle with basic foundational beliefs that have been very stubborn. I didn’t expect it to make any difference, since I didn’t think you could talk your way out of beliefs that are that deep–that emotions couldn’t be changed with intellectual evidence.
I was wrong! I knew immediately that the phrase “I’m not good enough” had lost it’s kick, but didn’t know if it was actually gone. This morning I found myself reacting differently than I would have when asked a question by my husband. And it was a shock to me as the words came out of my mouth! I even sneaked back on the site this morning to take the “mistakes and failure is wrong” module, not knowing if it would lock me out since I had already done one. And I can tell I am different.
Thanks so much for your work through the years to make this available. It really works–but I know that is no surprise to you!
Sincerely,
Linda
Hi Linda,
If you use a different email address, you can get in and eliminate two more beliefs.
And then you can eliminate the 19 most common beliefs that cause eight of the most common daily problems. For more information check out http://recreateyourlife.com/naturalconfidence.
Love, Morty
It has been two months now and I can tell you that not only is the “I’m not good enough” gone, but I was able to work through the “I’m a failure/disappointment” belief that has limited me for my whole life. The resulting freedom is affecting my small business, my creativity and resilience to daily challenges and my relationships. I told some of my family about it recently and they are using your method too. Thank you!
I am at the healing stage in my life where your program came at just the right time to be the most effective and meaningful. Thank you for offering your training online. I am sure that I eliminated 2 very deep-seated false and limiting beliefs. Do you have any boundaries and guilt/shame belief- elimination exercises?
Hi Emily,
The only way to know what beliefs you need to get rid of for your guilt/shame is to have a one-on-one session with you where you figure out what beliefs you have to eliminate and then help you eliminate them.
For more information, please call us at 415-884-0552.
Love, Morty
When I opened your email, I would have said the exercise made no difference, but then I realized that I have been behaving differently since taking it. In situations where I would typically be a quiet observer, I’ve stuck my hand out, introduced myself and started a conversation. Because I am important–as important as anybody else in the room. Neat!
Do we get to try a second one?
Hi Maggie,
If you sign up again with a different email address you can do all three. And you can then get the 19 most common beliefs that cause most of our daily problems at http://recreateyourlife.com/naturalconfidence.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty,
Do you have a belief that you can’t help everyone? You helped me.
Thanks, Teresa
After doing the first free belief eliminating exercise, I went on and purchased the entire program. Even though I really didn’t have the funds. I just spent the last day going through the entire program.
WOW!WOW!!WOW!!! I don’t know how this works or why it works but it seriously does! I have tried all kinds of other “remedies” to fix my issues, NLP, hypnosis, counseling, etc. none of them worked. I have tried on several occassions to run my own home based business and have failed miserably! I knew what to do, what to say, everything but I had this CRAZY fear of getting on the phone and talking to people, even thinking about it would get the anxiety going. It was a CRAZY fear because intellectually I knew that there was nothing to fear about picking up a phone, dialing it and talking to the person on the other end. BUT I just couldn’t do it! I’d spend all this time working myself up to get the courage to do it and it would last a total of two or three calls just to the point where I was being rejected and then I’d be done! I would be praying no one would answer! CRAZY!! That never made me any money. I would think what the heck is wrong with me??? this is insane!!! why can’t I just call these people? The business I just recently started I am not even making cold calls or calling my warm market, I’m calling people who actually filled out a form, put all their info on the sheet mailed it back and were waiting for someone to call them and I couldn’t even do that!!! ha ha I can laugh now! Made a few calls with easy, no hoopla, no anxiety, no stressing out….easy, easy, easy and today I went out and made $1,035.80! I’d say the program more than paid for itself! I will definitely be using your services more in the future for myself and family and will be telling everyone I know about TLM.
I am so grateful for whoever sent me a link to your site, have to go back and figure that out and thank them profusely!! Thankful that the internet even exists so that I can go to a site like this. Very grateful to you, Morty and Shelly! Thank you SOOOO much for putting this out there for all of us to access! After going through the process and figuring out/writing down examples where all my negative beliefs came from I thought “No wonder I was a mess and had all these bad beliefs going on!” But they ARE GONE!! and it still is mind boggling to me that it’s such a simple process – minds, subconscious, beliefs – interesting little buggers aren’t they? I’m glad you’ve figured out how to set them straight!! :0)
Forever grateful,
Hi Morty,
thank you very much for the very valuable method you designed for ” eliminating ” beliefs ( better said from my perspective ” changing their status from true to false ” , or in other words from “belief” to “ordinary statement” ).
I am using in my work a method I found out in a book I bought for discovering the hidden beliefs. This method I discovered in your free video would support me in ” eliminating ” them. Would it be OK for you if I use it mentioning you as author and your contact data ( website, link … ) in my coaching process with my clieents ?
Thank you very much for your answer and consideration
Costel Coravu ACC ICF
Harmony & Business Coach
Hi Costel,
Sure, you can use the Lefkoe Belief Process and tell people where to find me. Thanks. But please make sure you also tell people that you are using your version of the process and have not received any training in our work.
We are in the process of creating a new on-line training program to teach people how to help people eliminate beleifs. Let me know if you are interested and we’ll add you to the list.
Thanks for your interest in our work.
Love, Morty
I would be very interested in this training process thank you!
Hey Morty.
Hey Morty, I just want to say thank you for your website and the leftkoe method. It has helped me a lot with my limiting beliefs. I think what helped me the most is realizing that event themselves have no inherent meaning, only the meaning that we give to them and the ideas and feelings that we attach to them. Just this one realization has changed my entire outlook on life. I now see where I didn’t before and I realize that I can be in a state of perpetual happiness merely by attaching positive ideas and feeling to all event in my life, even the one I used to perceive as negative or bad. One belief that I’m struggling with however i that peoples opinion and judgements of me truly matter. I know I should not completely ignore the opinions of others, but it has gotten to the point where I base my actions on whether or not those around me will approve of them. I just want to be independent of the opinions of others but I obviously do not want to be selfish or arrogant. Your help is greatly appreciated.
You Sir/Madam are the enemy of cofnsuoin everywhere!
I’m not a English native speaker but I tried to say the belief in my mother language. I choosed the belief “I’m not important” and then I listened to your video and when you asked me to tell the belief I said “Eu não sou importante” – this is portuguese. I’m not shure yet if the belief was eliminated, but I hope so. Sorry for possible language errors in this comment.
Tatiana (Portugal)
Hi Tatiana,
What you did is a great idea that I have asked clients to do many times.
If you formed the belief in a language other than English, you can substitute the words of the belief in your native language when you do the process. If you completed the entire process the belief probably is gone. It works most of the time.
Love, Morty
I had a not-so-good experience with this. I chose, “I’m not good enough.” I have been suicidal for a while. Remembering times from my childhood when I felt not good enough did not have the desired effect of ending the belief. The sentence just kept getting louder and louder, and my mind is all messed up about why I’m still here. All those memories are pushing so hard… Maybe there could be some caveat for people who are seriously depressed, that this may be triggering. I believe in it and that it can work. I’m just too screwed up.
Hi Leslie,
I’m really sorry you didn’t have a good experience using our free belief-eliminating process. That can happen but it is very rare.
You aren’t too “screwed up” for the process to work. I was very depressed for most of my life and haven’t been depressed now for many years. Many others have totally eliminated their depression also using The Lefkoe Method.
Sometimes it can be hard for someone very depressed to use the on-line version of the Process and need the guidance of a trained facilitator.
If you have any more questions, please call us at 415-884-0552.
Love, Morty
Morty – I have to say that I am just blown away by the process. I did 2 of the beliefs [not important and not good enough] and it was incredible! So I bought the rest on the CD. The next morning I woke up and I felt like I was a kid on Christmas morning. I felt like the whole world lay in front of me and everything is possible. I have a set of affirmations that I say while I am running and the next day when I said some of those affirmations, I knew I didn’t need to say them anymore – becuase they were true. My affirmations now relate to skills I want to develop, but I don’t need to say the ones that relate to who I am – because I am important and I am good enough. I have been doing personal growth work for about 26 years [and I did therapy after my divorce] and this is as powerful as anything I have done. Thank you so much for your work! Amazing………….I can’t wait to work on the other beliefs!
Hi Mary,
I’m thrilled to hear about your positive results. Thanks for letting us know.
When you complete the entire program bring us up to date.
Love,Morty
Morty, I liked your blog, really rang true for me.
Do I believe I eliminated the believe “Mistakes and failures are bad”? Well, I’ve certainly been tested with roughly 5 or 6 events in the last few days that I normally would have beat myself up for!
Just to give you a few examples (despite my own “family calendar”): I mistook the date of an event for my son, thought we missed it and it’s later this week. I thought the kids’ picture day was a day earlier, I forgot to get gas for my car – which I NEVER do (but was able to find a station in time.) I forgot to drop off my younger son’s soccer gear and I left my own lunch bag on this bus just this morning! *Whew* Much of my forgetfulness is likely due to the new school year and taking on a new job with my current employer…My long-winded point is that I was able to take all this in stride and not get worked up over it! So, thank you!
Hi,
Congratulations! Yes, life does change when you eliminate a belief. And when you eliminate all the beleifs that cause a specific problem, the problem disappears.
Love,Morty
Hi Morty,
What I know about self limiting beliefs is that the process to change these can be very layered and take time. This is not because it takes a long time to eliminate these as with using your method but because one may not even be aware that the belief is there at first.
I did try your method and chose probably one of the most common beliefs, “I am not good enough”. I definitely felt a shift in my energy and a lightness surface when I tested it. I have not yet tried to imagine a situation in the future to test it as I reckoned I would soon discover in reality whether it was gone forever or not or whether there was some morphed aspect of it still lurking around.
Thank you for the opportunity to try your method. When I can I will invest in your whole program and I am also interested in your new on-line training program to teach people how to help people eliminate beliefs so could you please add me to that list too.
~Marcus
I came, I read this article, I counerqed.
Morty, thank you very much for this hint – the belief: Change is difficult and takes a long time.” It was a real problem for me to get rid of beliefs, having that one. It is one of basic presuppositions of NLP – change can be instant. But knowing this didn’t help me to erase old bad beliefs.
I think it would be good to include this one belief as fourth belief which people can get rid of free on your site. It would help people believe that they can change themselves very quickly.
I think that key belief prevent many people from bying your Natural Confidence course.
Hi Vladimir,
Thanks for the suggestion. We will look into it and see what can be done.
That belief is one of the 19 on our Natural Confidence course.
Love,Morty
I found out about your program via Shelly’s interview on The Great Parenting Show. Many of the things she spoke about (automatic beliefs that sort of cascade & get us stressed about our children’s behavior) rang very true to me and I’m grateful for how she articulated it for me.
I went through to the eliminating belief page, and worked through the I’m Not Good Enough belief, and it definitely lost it’s power, and I felt a great deal of relief. The memory of my parents punished me for not controlling my younger sister’s behavior kept coming up during the process and the idea of them having unrealistic expectations was so helpful. And this clear memory also helps me understand how triggered I get as a parent when my child is not behaving the way my sister & I were expected to behave, and I can’t “control” him.
And while I initially felt the joy and expansiveness of the idea that I’m the creator of my life and all is possible, I almost immediately felt fear, and realized other limiting beliefs had stepped in.
Thank you for your work. I’m looking forward to incorporating this in my life!
Lisa
Hello Morty,
I would just like to say thank you for your commitment to helping others with there issues. I just finished the “I´m not good enough” and I think it worked as it feels different when I say it, only time will tell.
I also have a question about eliminating beliefs in children. I am a parent and I KNOW that my children have developed a belief of I´m not good enough through my husband and me not thinking about what we are saying to them, especially my 10 year old. We have been aware of this for a while now and have drastically change our way of parenting and today our son is much happier, BUT how can I help him change his belief of I´m not good enough which I can see he has for example when he does his homework.
Kind regards
Sylvia
Oh, wow! I did the exercise for I’m not good enough and it blew me away. How do I know it worked? Within 6 or 8 hours of doing the exercise, I found myself handing out compliments as if they were candy canes. In other words, I had stopped guarding my heart and worrying about what people thought of me. It sounds nuts, but this was the deciding factor for me. In the last few days, my partner and I have grown much closer and I’ve dared to try some new directions for my work without a second thought(before, I would have been terrified).
As soon as I can, I’m buying the program. Thanks!
Hi,
Thanks for sharing your breakthrough. I’m so happy you have gotten so much value already.
Let me know what happens after you eliminate the 19 beliefs on the Natural Confidence program.
Love, Morty
Hello,this will be the 7th time I have tried using the site,however as with another readers comments …I am frustrated at it not working,it will take me to where it says
Eliminate a belief I press it’s an empty page that says for me to bookmark : (
Hi Michelle,
Are you using an iPad or iPhone? Presently our programs use Flash and iProducts don’t use Flash. We are int he process of switching formats so you will be able to run on programs on iProducts.
If that is not your issue, please try closing your browsers and trying again. When we try it it works so I’m not sure why it doesn’t work for you. I’m truly sorry.
Love, Morty
Hi Morty!
I want to thank you for your free eliminate a belief. I did the exercise in the evening before going to bed and it was amazing. I really felt a shift in my consciousness. I felt as if something had really changed and it felt good. I have always tried to change my beliefs but could not. I have gone through just about every program and books by Anthony Robbins not to mention others. Every one of them promise that you will change and they do help but only for a short period. You get to the knitty gritty and really help people to change there beliefs. There is something magical that happens in the process of your eliminate a belief. Its been a couple of days now and I have visualized myself now doing certain things that would hold me back and I do not have the same feelings as I had before. I will definitely invest in your program. This is what I have been waiting for all these years its such a pity I did not come across your work before. Kind Regards Wayne Wells from sunny South Africa
Hi Wayne,
Glad to hear that our work is proving so valuable for you.
And if you think eliminating one belief is exciting, wait until you eliminate the 19 beleifs on our Natural Confidence program and notice you no longer are concerned with the opinions of others, an increase in confidence, etc.
Let me know what you think/
Love,Morty
Hi Morty!
I tried to purchase your product but it would not except my card for some reason. I then sent an Ticket to you guys stating can I buy the product through Pay Pal its now been about 3 days and I have not heard anything?
Kind Regards
Wayne
Mort. I want to thank you for the free trial .. I have tried thetahealing , tapping , crystal bowl toning , Pranashakthi , meditation .. as soon as I was finished using your demo I could feel a release . I am purchasing your system . thanks again
Hi Phil,
I’m really happy to hear that the free belief-elimination program worked for you.
Let me know what you think after completing the Natural Confidence program.
Love, Morty
Hi mort , yesterday I tried your natural confidence trial yesterday ,, is it normal that since , I have had a headache , been light headed , and sometimes throbbing head, was it possible that the release was that big I feel like that I have the flu …Thanks
Hi Phil,
I’ve never herd of anyone getting physically ill after eliminating a belief, but I guess it’s possible.
I’m sorry to hear that you feel ill and hope you are feeling much better real soon.
Love, Morty
Dear Morty:
Thank you for your emails and info.
Today I received your DVD that I ordered through the Aware Show. I did not play it yet, but thought my order included more than this one item. I will soon be playing this.
This present email is very helpful. I had all the thoughts that others had about not being completely sure that all was cleared. However, I did know that the first exercise I did regarding my parents was great. It seemed that a heavy load of garbage I was carrying all my life made sense and it had a profound positive effect on me; a healing.
I thank you for your interest and help in wanting to make a difference!!!!!
Hi Bernice,
I’m thrilled to hear that our work has had a “profound posititve impact” on ytou.
I’m not sure what else yu were expecting. The DVD has over 10 hours of material on it. We could have made 10 shorter DVDs, but that would have been a waste of plastic.
Let me know how you feel when you complete the program.
Love, Morty
Hey there, Morty. I was reading up on Steve Pavlina’s site, learning all sorts of great things, and I saw an article about eliminating negative beliefs. I realized the potential eliminating such beliefs could have on my life, so I decided to open the article. Instead of him going through what to do, he explained where he learned the technique, and recommended we get it first hand from you. Your free online session was surprisingly effective and really did work. I eliminated the belief of being unimportant. Even though I knew I was important, I still believed I wasn’t. I haven’t been bothered by such feelings of unimportance ever since I visited your site. I can focus better, I’m more stable socially, and my reactions towards other people are more positive. I’m going to apply this method to other aspects of my life and see what else I can eliminate. Just wanted to thank you for your help.
Hi Richard,
I’m glad you found us through Steve Pavlina and that our work has been helpful.
Although eliminating a couple of beleifs can be very useful, it is important to eliminate all the beliefs that cause specific problems, so entire problems can be eliminated.
Our Natural Confidence program helps you eliminate 23 of the most common beleifs and conditionings so that you can eliminate eight of the most common daily problem, such as procrastination, lack of confidence, worrying about what others think of you, etc.
Check it out at http://recreateyourlife.com/naturalconfidence.
Love, Morty
Hello Morty – Although you can realise and accept that a negative belief is self created, I cannot see how this conscious mental process can dissolve the belief from your subconscious mind, where it is firmly embedded and held in place with many emotional references linked to various past experiences. I use my own personal form of fasterEFT to dissolve the emotions which uphold the negative belief in the subconscious, so that all relative past events no longer hold an emotional charge, so you are free from the effects of the belief – irrespective of whether you believe it or not, it does not matter. On the issue of confidence, it is a ‘feeling’ vibrational emotion, which stems from expecting the best possible outcome from everything you do – but is adversely affected by any negative beliefs that may exist in the subconscious mind. Kind wishes – keep up the good work.
Do you do affiliate marketing?
Hi Logan,
If you are asking if people can be an affiliate for our Natural Confidence program, the answer is yes.
For more information, please go to http://recreateyourlife.com/partnersignup.
Thanks for your interest.
Love,Morty
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