Master The Process Of Unlearning Negative Emotions
So You Can Give Your Clients (and yourself)
The Gift Of Lifelong Freedom
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Imagine this ... you're in a session with a client. Things have been going well over your past few meetings with him. At first, he was so afraid to fail that he hadn't gotten started on many projects important to him. In previous sessions you've helped him get rid of several beliefs causing his fear and keeping him from getting started.
In today's session, he lets you know that things have improved. His fear has diminished. And while it's still hard to get started, it's easier than it was. He's looking for further improvement. During the session you try to find more beliefs. It just doesn't seem like there are any. You want to deliver total results for him, but it seems that you can't ... at least not yet.
What happened?
Why can't you bring his fear down further so life gets even easier for him?
The answer - conditioning.
Emotions like fear have at least two causes 1) beliefs, and 2) conditioning.
If you've taken the LMT1 and LMT2 courses, then you already know about beliefs and how they cause behaviors and emotions that don't work for us.
But you may not know as much about emotional conditioning, what truly causes conditioning and how to get rid of it.
This is what we teach in our course called LMT3: Mastering The Emotional Unlearning Processes. You discover what to do when all the beliefs are gone but some emotions are still there. You learn to identify emotional conditioning and help your clients unlearn it. As a result, they become free from fear, anger or other negative emotions that keep them from being truly free.
In 1996 Morty and I had a client named Don who had unlearned over 100 beliefs and as a result, had made huge changes in his life. But he still experienced strong emotions in some situations. For example, he would steam with anger if anyone told him what to do. After eliminating many beliefs, he stopped acting on the anger but the anger was almost as strong as ever.
After several months we were stumped. What could be causing him to be angry after having eliminated so many beliefs?
Why some emotions don't change after beliefs are unlearned
After wrestling with this issue for some time, Morty thought that maybe the problem was something that psychologists call "Classical Conditioning."
The most famous example is Pavlov's dogs.
Pavlov rang a bell, then he showed his dogs food. This caused them to salivate.
He did this every day for several days. Ring bell, show the dogs food, dogs salivate.
Finally, one day he rang the bell ... but this time he didn't show the dogs any food. He just waited.
And the dogs salivated anyway.
The dogs had associated the sound of the bell with food. So ringing the bell could make them salivate. This is what's happening with people too.
For instance, imagine that I handed you an ice cream cone, then I slapped you. And every day, I would see you, hand you an ice cream cone and slap you.
On day seven, I move to hand you an ice cream cone. What might you do?
That's right. You'd pull back. And yet ice cream cones don't cause fear in people.
You've been conditioned to fear being handed an ice cream cone.
How did Morty solve the problem of emotional conditioning?
Some time after Morty had this realization, he devised the Lefkoe Stimulus Process to help our clients unlearn the triggers for feelings that weren't caused by beliefs. Examples are fear triggered by disapproval from others or anger at being told what to do.:
Morty discovered that it was possible to make a distinction that breaks the connection between fear and other emotions and a trigger so that the trigger stops producing the emotion.
As a result we could now deliver even deeper changes to our clients. They could change their behavior and unlearn most emotions.
And when we trained our students in the Lefkoe Method, we added these processes to the curriculum and students got even better results with clients than before.
In fact, sometimes just getting rid of a trigger for an emotion made a big change. Here's what a few people said after they tried the Lefkoe Stimulus Process.
I removed several fears related to job interviews. I find out next week if I get the job, but I feel very calm, and I feel great either way-whether or not I get the job, I've won because these allowed me to make changes from within to have more confidence and calmness during the whole interviewing process and in life. I think these are amazing and the results are so fast. Thank you so much!
-Alexandra
Hi Morty, thank you for sharing this technique with us. I have done it with three different issues and each time, at the end, I feel a small door opening inside to a place that is calm and has no fear or anxiety. This is a big step for me and I am truly grateful.
Thank you
-Laura
Hi Morty,
I just used the LSP (Lefkoe Stimulus Process) to relieve my "apprehensions when faced with challenges", and I can only say its like a small, physical sensation of dissolvement. There truly is a conscious space and feeling of peace that actually feels pretty good, just like the WAIR process. Thanks Morty, I look forward to eliminating many more of my fears.
-Kurt
How Morty's Insight About Conditioning Lead To Other Change Processes
Using the same insight that produced the Lefkoe Stimulus Process, Morty created other change processes.
- The Lefkoe Sense Process that helps a person change hard-to-describe feelings about themselves. Even when negative self-beliefs are gone, these inner feelings often remain until they are de-conditioned.
- The Lefkoe Expectations Process This changes negative expectations from the past such as expecting to be disappointed, into positive expectations in the present.
- The Lefkoe Behavioral De-conditioning Process. This process gets rid of compulsive behavior when unlearning beliefs alone won't produce the change. It's most commonly used with emotional eating.
If you take the LMT3: Mastering The Emotional Unlearning Processes, you will learn all of these life-changing techniques so you can produce even deeper changes for your clients.
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" I was able to use what I learned to help an old friend to get rid of a pattern which had exerted a powerful hold over her life and wellbeing for over 50 years, despite her best efforts to overcome it using a range of therapeutic techniques. She is now enjoying a level of freedom from fear and anger she did not think possible. It's never too late... "
Ian Forbes, fig one solutions
Nottingham, UK
" Think about LMT3 not only a course for learning some more TLM techniques, which by themselves brought me to better understanding of what's going on, but also a good summing-up of everything you learned before on LMT1 and LMT2. Sense of completeness and much fuller "grasp". Much more confidence with the clients and self. If you are "in" with regards to TLM - must have! "
Dmitry
Russia, Kaliningrad
Here's a rundown of what you'll learn
Module 1: Unlearning Fear Triggers
- The 5-part social fear equation which explains how our most common fears are created
- How fear is conditioned so that it hits you every time you experience specific triggers
- The one aspect most psychologists miss about how fear is REALLY formed
- The 7 steps to disconnecting fear from a trigger so the trigger never causes fear again.
- The 7 types of events that lead to fear conditioning
- The 10 most common triggers for fear
Module 2: Unlearning Anger Triggers
- The two-part anger conditioning process that explains how events in the past create triggers for anger today
- The hidden meaning that is a common source of anger
- The 7 steps to disconnecting anger from a trigger, so in the future when the trigger happens, there is no anger.
- The six sources of anger in childhood
Module 3: Finding Emotional Triggers In A Session
- How to know when to use the Lefkoe Stimulus Process with a client
- How to find emotional triggers as part of your client's patterns
- How to integrate the Lefkoe Stimulus Process into a session for maximum results
Module 4: Eliminating Emotions In The Present
- The 8 steps to help a client get over an upset about a recent event by dissolving the meaning
- When to use this process to help a client dissolve meaning
- How to help your client learn to dissolve meaning as a life improvement skill
Module 5: Unlearning Emotions - The Rarely Used Processes
- How to use the Lefkoe Sense Process to get rid of a client's negative sense of self - this can be used with depressed clients or those experiencing deep shame
- How to use the Lefkoe Expectations Process to change a negative expectation based in the past into a more realistic expectation based in the present
- How to use the Lefkoe Behavioral De-Conditioning process to get rid of compulsive behaviors that don't come from beliefs
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" The Lefkoe Method Training 3 gave great and unique tools to add to my practice. Since taking the course, I am able to solve my client's problems much faster than before. I find that it is a privilege, it really makes a difference in my life and in my practice. I’m more at peace with all the events that happen in my life and I now have a totally different perspective, which allows me to have more freedom. I strongly recommend the training, it will transform your life and the lives of your clients. I want to mention a special thanks to Morty and Shelley Lefkoe for their dedication in developing these great tools and helping so many people over the years. I also want to thanks Rodney for his professionalism, availability and his great ability to transfer knowledge throughout the training sessions. "
Martine Forest
Montréal, Québec, Canada
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" The Lefkoe Method Training 3 is well designed, lively and interesting. It puts tools in your hand that you can use to eliminate patterns of behavior that stall or stop you and beliefs that limit you. You can have the same impact on others. It can become your profession or enhance the work you already do, "
Anne Lieberman
San Rafael, CA, USA
Here's what's included in the course
When you register for LMT3: Mastering The Emotional Unlearning Processes you get:
- Access to The LMT3 Member's Area. Your member's area contains all the lessons that teach you how to unlearn negative emotions and help others do the same. It also allows you to keep your questions, comments and assignments in one place for easy reference later.
- Written Lessons: The lessons are in written form so it's easy to take notes and easy to review.
- Quizzes: You get quizzes with instant feedback, so you will know that you are really getting each concept as soon as we teach it.
- Weekly Reviews: A comprehensive review process each week to ensure that you retain everything you've learned in the course. This way you can count on keeping your skills for many years to come.
- Written feedback on your work, so you know that you can apply each technique we teach effectively.
- Certificate of Completion: Once you complete all parts of the course, you'll get a certificate of completion to show you did every aspect of this demanding program.
- Eligibility to become a Certified Lefkoe Method Facilitator: If you've also completed the LMT1 and LMT2, you will be eligible to apply for our Lefkoe Method Certification program. Once completed, you'll be able to put CLMF by your name, letting your clients know that the Lefkoe Institute stands by you as an effective facilitator
As you can see, we've filled this course with everything you need to master the emotional unlearning processes. However, to magnify your learning, we've add the following bonuses.
Bonus: Live and recorded Q&A sessions
Ever been confused when trying to learn from books or videos? Wouldn't it be great if you could ask the author a question and get an answer back right away that clarified everything? Well, in this course that's exactly what happens. We take questions in advance and live so that you really understand the concepts, ideas and practices each week during the course. This gives you the confidence to apply what you're learning and avoids needless frustration.
Bonus: A Learning Buddy
Sometimes it's hard to find a partner to practice with. That's why we arrange a buddy for every member of the course (unless you decline). You'll have a partner to practice with so you can deepen your skills and gain the confidence that you can produce results.
Bonus: One Hour Of Live Coaching
How can you be sure that you're maximizing your effectiveness in using what you learned? Only with feedback from an expert. That's why we added the one-hour coaching with a Certified Lefkoe Method Facilitator as a special bonus. We want to make sure you feel fully prepared to free people from negative beliefs and emotions by the end of the course, and coaching is a very effective way to do that.
No-Risk, 100% Satisfaction Guarantee for 30 days!
I want you to be totally satisfied. If you join, I want you to know that you must be happy with this course ... to know that it will give you the power to guide others (and yourself) into freedom from negative emotions ... to know that everything we teach is worthwhile to you ... or you can request a full refund anytime within 30 days of joining. Just send us an email.
I'm giving you this iron-clad, money-back guarantee, because I want you to feel totally comfortable knowing that you will get value from this course as have the many others that have already taken this course.
What's Tuition For This Course On Unlearning Negative Emotions?
I've seen training for coaches that costs up to a thousand dollars for each week of training. And although this training program takes 5 weeks and many hours of our time, we try to keep our programs as affordable as possible.
That's why tuition for this this life-transforming program is just $800 when paid in 4 monthly payments of $200 or you can get it for $100 off by paying in one lump sum of $695.
If you break it down over the next year in which you'll be transforming lives, that's less than $2 a day to become a master of personal change.
Only Twenty People Can Take Advantage Of This Opportunity To Transform Thousands Of Lives
Because of the personal attention we give, participation in this course is extremely limited. Only 20 people will be a part of this training class. Once all the spots are filled, we'll be closing the doors and the next one won't be offered until next year.
So don't wait. Take a minute and sign up for this program today.
Once you learn how to help others (and yourself) unlearn negative emotions and integrate that with the Lefkoe Belief Process, you'll never have to watch helplessly as you hear someone you care about complaining that their life doesn't work.
You can do something about it.
You can restore joy to unhappy lives. You can help people get rid of fears that are holding them back. You can help people who see nothing but limitation see unlimited possibilities. Don't delay. Sign up today. Let's get started right now transforming you into a master of personal change!
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Shelly Lefkoe
Co-Founder of The Lefkoe Institute
P.S. Remember, I completely guarantee your success. Which means you have no risk in trying this powerful training program.
Think of it, what's it worth to transform the life of one person? One person whose life would have continued on with less joy and fulfillment and perhaps more pain.
Now multiply that value a few hundred times. That's the value of this course. Register today.
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" I'm not a therapist but if you are ...
Please do the training so when people like me come to work with you, you have this very powerful set of tools in your toolbox. It emancipates one from negative feelings and beliefs and is worth its weight in gold. "Ruth Bonomo
Southbury, CT, USA