Saturday is Veterans Day. It is also the two year anniversary of my husband, Morty Lefkoe’s death.
Morty and Shelly
I don’t want to compare him to a war hero, to someone who sacrificed for their country. Especially those that made the ultimate sacrifice.
However, I consider my late husband to be my personal hero.
He didn’t risk his life to keep us free from external oppression. But he did dedicate himself to freeing us from internal oppression.
Many of us go through life feeling hopeless and powerless.
We know that we’re not living up to our full potential.
We sometimes fail to realize that who we are makes a difference.
And many times we don’t feel empowered to change things that really can be changed – in our own lives as well as the lives of others.
Morty, was my hero because despite him struggling with depression for years … and struggling with romantic relationships (until he met me) … as well as other difficult issues … he worked creatively, tirelessly, hopefully to find a solution not just for himself but for all of us.
He created something that not only helped him change but continues to help others as well.
And to me that’s the true definition of a hero.
Someone who doesn’t work just for him or herself but works for the good of the many.
So while today many honor those that fought for their country, as do I, on this day, the anniversary of my husband’s passing, I also honor Morty who fought for a different kind of freedom.
May you be blessed with the freedom to speak your truth, live a joyful life, and know that you make a difference even if it’s just a small one.
And if you wish, please thank anyone who serves the safety and well being of your country.
Thanks for reading.
A Recent Success Story
It’s incredulous to think I associated people not liking me with a threat to my survival! I lived most of my life with that discomfort/fear around people … And now it’s gone.
I never feel like my boyfriend doesn’t love me anymore. I’m not clingy or needy anymore. I don’t take it personally when he spends time with other people.
One interesting example of how things have changed is when a stranger on the bus asked me and Aaron if we had change(we didn’t) and I asked the rest of the bus riders if any of them would spare any. One person came up and gave him bus money. He thanked me for my help.
I think if we didn’t have our session, I would have just receded into my seat and looked at Aaron like, “don’t look at me, but maybe Aaron will help,” and Aaron would’ve handled the situation for me. I’m so glad, Shelly.
Aaron says he notices the difference; he says I’m much more friendly and I’m attractive in a new way. Super cool. I feel great about myself. I can talk to people the way I want. I’m not helplessly scared when it comes to social situations anymore. Thank you very very much!
-Kim Lam
Wildomar, California
Beautifully written Shelly. The love Morty had for you and your love for Morty is a beautiful legacy. Morty’s optimism, desire to help others, lack of judgment and desire to learn were just a few of the qualities that made it such a joy to spend time with him.
Russ
Thank you Russ. Thank you for helping us get Natural Confidence made and for being his friend. He loved you and Julie very much (especially Julie :))
I love you,
Shelly
Morty was an angel on earth, he find his mission here and try to help others as well.
God Bless you! And God Bless Morty wherever he is, probably at the rigth side of God, I wonder.
thank you for your beautiful words Laura. I am touched by them.
Love, Shelly
Shelley,
I am moved by your words describing Morty. He was a great man. From the very first time I met him, he was a true delight. When the two of you started dating, it was delightful to observe. When you had your first child, I never saw a man that happy and loving. Yes, my friend, you hit the love jackpot!
Morty was and is a HERO!
Profound and inspiring, Shelly.
Morty changed your life in a special and
intimate way.
He helped me change my beliefs which,
in turn, changed my life. He is always
a cherished friend and I am forever grateful
for him and for you as blessings in my life.
Much love, Ray!
Oh my sweet friend! Thank you for you loving words. I was so moved to see this from you!
My honey is smiling down from heaven. All he ever wanted to do was make a difference.
See you in Hawaii!
I love you,
Shelly
Really well written Morty’s methods and the confidence program have made a positive impact on my life, rest in peace to a very good Man.
Thank you Nez. I’m so happy that our work made a difference in your life.
Love, Shelly
Beautiful blog Shelly. Each of you are so lovable and special. And… together you made magic!😘
Hi Shelly
Thank you for sharing this – very touching. You and Morty have had a big impact on my life. I’m glad I found you. I talk about Morty often when I’m coaching clients and continue to use your methods to eliminate my own limiting beliefs. Love and light, Jenny xx
Hi Jenny,
I am so grateful that our work has helped you and that you use it with others. Thank you for taking the time to write.
With love and gratitude.
Shelly
It has long been my feeling that Morty was divinely inspired when he developed what we now call the Lefkoe Method. And his dedication to sharing that work with the world truly makes him a hero. To say I’m grateful for the work you and Morty have done is a huge understatement.
Thank you Clayton. This is music to my hears. Morty is smiling down from heaven.
With love and gratitude,
Shelly
Always remembering Beloved Mortis….xo
Thanks T. I’ll always be Shellis of Shellis and Mortis. I love you.
Lovely message Shelley. You’re so lucky that you’ve had him in your life for so long, what a gift. He’s a very courageous man. I’m grateful to Morty for the impact he had on my thinking and so my life. God Bless you and your family, Love Jane xxxx
Thank you Jane,
And he was grateful to be able to make a difference in peoples’ lives. It’s what he lived for.
Thank you for writing and I am the luckiest woman in the world.
Love, Shelly
Hello Shelly
About 10 years ago, I had reached a level of frustration that was unbearable anymore. I hated myself and I hated the way I was.
Somehow I knew that there was a solution for my challenges somewhere in the universe. Not knowing where such a solution could be, I had started a search in a tireless way. Years of efforts and numerous methods and techniques.
Until the day I saw a youtube video about the Lefkoe method. I had spoken to Morty on the phone and immediately ordered the interactive DVD. That was a real rebirth for me.
Shelly, I knew your husband about 10 years ago and thanks to his method my life has completely changed and I can say because of him my family and I lived way better for the last 10 years.
I spoke about the Lefkoe method to many people and I continue to do so.
Please note I do not live in the US, I used to live in Dubai and now am based in Tunisia.
There are people who love and are grateful to Morty allover the world, that includes me in Tunisia a French speaking country in North Africa.
Thanks for preserving and sustaining Morty’s legacy.
Love
Nejib
Nejib,
Thank you for your kind words. Morty would have been thrilled to read them. This means the world to us, to know that your life has been changed as a result of our work.
Thank you for spreading the word. It’s why we exist as a company and want to touch as many lives as possible You are his legacy.
Love, Shelly
Hi Shelly, this is an amazing tribute to a very special human being. You write so beautifully and clearly. Being a hero is no easy task but Morty did that with deep conviction and compassion. The result is that you get to contribute and make life better for all of us. I thank you both and Rodney and the Institute for carrying forward his work and legacy. With deepest gratitude and love.
Thanks Neelima. It is a joy working with you and watching your life change beyond recognition! I love you.
Hi Shelly, so beautifully written! We loved our special times with the two of you. Morty was the embodiment of unconditional love. He will always be in our hearts. We love you dearly! ❤️
Joanie and Bobby,
Thank you for writing. He was the embodiment of unconditional love and he loved you both so much. Spending weekend with you was one of his favorite things to do. I am so glad that he expressed to both of you how much he loved you.
I love and cherish our relationship.
Love, Shelly
Shelly, I loved Morty and I love you, I took several of his courses. I use re-create your life with the children I work with as a therapist. I admire his clear, insightful thinking. I appreciate his determination to teach his life-changing ideas with conviction to help others overcome their limiting beliefs. I also admired the way he handled his cancer as an occurring which did not have to mean anything. I believed nothing would ever stop him… .He lives in my heart and I honor his legacy by sharing it with those who can benefit from it. Thanks Dave Jaskolski
David,
As I read this tears run down my face. I am so touched that you’re using this with children. Maybe they won’t grow up to be my clients :). Thank you for honoring Morty’s legacy. I love you too!!!!
With love and gratitude,
Shelly
Hi Shelly! Thanks for sharing this work and methods with us. Truly remarkable and effective. Sorry that Morty passed away. I think he’s very proud of you taking his work and legacy to the world of hurting people.
Thanks again for the effective sessions!
Best from Ole
Thanks Ole. It has been a privilege working with you. Thanks for your kind words. They’re what keep me going.
With love and gratitude,
Shelly
Beautiful true words Shelly! Morty helped me change my internal world which in turn has now helped me give my gift back to others and live the life I was meant to live ❤️ I am forever grateful Thank you xxx
Isabelle, Thank you for honoring Morty’s legacy. This is what his life was about. May you continue to flourish.
Well said and wonderful testimony about your husband. Xx
Thank you Peter.
What a beautiful testimonial, Shelly. I love the way you described Morty as fighting for freedom in another way – freedom from inner oppression. Both of you – and your organization – have made such s difference in our world. Keep doing your wonderful work – and shining your bright light! 💥❤️💥
Linda,
Thank you for your beautiful words. They mean the world to me. Thank you for taking the time to let me know.
With love and gratitude.
Shelly
Such a beautiful post to honour Morty. You’re just as lovely and kind as he was.
Thank you Alana. I am touched by your words.
With love and gratitude,
Shelly
I love you, Shelly. I love Morty, too. He, and you, have so very definitely changed my life, and the lives of lots of folks I’ve been privileged to know. Thank you just isn’t adequate. I hope to show my gratitude by carrying on with Morty’s work. <3
I love you too sweet Gracie. You are the bravest, most courageous warrior I know.
Thank you for carrying our work into the world.
With gratitude for your presence in my life,
shelly
Hello Shelly, I followed Morty’s blogs and then took 2 of his courses. He was, as you say, totally committed to helping people realise there is a way out of the darkness of depression and his method is drug free.
Your post about Morty is lovely and You are also a person whose great generosity of heart helps people move on with their lives. You continue to bring both your courage and big heart to your work, just as Morty did. I miss Morty’s sharing and the posts he sent out so regularly. My warmest wishes to you and your family on this 2nd anniversary come across the waters to you from London, UK.
Siobhan,
I am so moved by your kind words. I miss editing his blogs and reading them too :). He was an extraordinary man and your loving his work meant the world to him. Thank you for taking the time to write.
With love and gratitude,
Shelly
A wonderful testament to a great man. However, behi d every great man… May you cherish all of the good memories and co time to carry on the legacy that you both built for the benefit of everyone. LOVE you very much, and thanks for all you’ve done. :-)
I love you Sean Blackman! Thanks for loving our work. You make such a difference when you’re in our courses!
With love and gratitude,
Shelly
Thank you Shelly for sharing your words and love for Morty. What you two built has definitely made a dent in the evolution of my world. Much love and honor to you both.
Sol,
I am deeply touched by your kind words. Thank you for using our work to make a difference in your life. That’s what we get out of bed for!
With love and gratitude,
Shelly
I hate my life. I’m stuck in a pool of sadness and depression and I don’t know how to get out.
Hey Ayanna you should try and check out the leomethod.com -It could help you from drowning in your own pool if you’re willing to get out. Hope it helps.
Do you just do the Lefkoe Method, Juan, but call it the Leo Method?
Thanks Juan and Erin. Recreateyourlife.com has three free beliefs to eliminate. Try that first Ayanna.
Love, Shelly
Actually, Ayanna, you should book a session with Shelly and work with her directly. She’s helped thousands of people just like you.
I am so sorry Ayanna.
If there is any way that I can help please let me know.
Love, Shelly