This is related to Rod’s question, above –
How does one identify (accurately) beliefs and other internal limiters that began to be formed before one “had words”: pre-literal, when you were an infant?

Thanks, this is fascinating!

Kinesthetic people have a hard time “seeing” the belief. If they don’t, it’s fine. There are other parts of the process especially for them.

Regards, Morty

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Regards, Morty

Often when interacting with people on a one on one basis, I feel uncomfortable, I perspire, I doubt, can you help me with this social anxiety?
Thanks M
Steve.

I’m curious. Regarding Question 7 in “Answers to questions about beliefs, Part 2” and visual people being able to “see” their beliefs: Being in the graphic arts, I like to think I’m a visual person, however, having gone through 4 LBP’s, each time when you’ve asked me (us) to “see” the belief I’m still not sure what you’re expecting me (us) to see? I didn’t “see” it but sort of muddle my way, visually, through that part and when the “feeling” part comes along, that “feels” (no pun intended) better for me. Any suggestions as to how I (we) can more clearly “see” the beliefs? After all, it is important for us to “see” it, isn’t it? (Did I hear you answer out loud?!)

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Answer: Our experience is that you do need to find the real source of a belief in order for the Lefkoe Belief Process (LBP) to be effective in eliminating the belief. For example, if you think the source of a belief is experiences you had in school, when the real source is interactions with your parents, the belief might not be eliminated. Why?

Remember that in the process you are asked: Imagine being a child and observing the events that led to the belief. Doesn’t it seem as if you can see (the belief)?

For the belief to go away for visual people, you need to get that what you’ve spent a lifetime thinking you saw in those events, you never really did see. If you truly can see something, then it really is there. The trick is to realize that you didn’t see what you thought you saw. The belief (in other words, the meaning you gave the events) exists only in your mind, not out there in the world to be seen.

If you mistakenly choose other events that aren’t really the source, you still will think you saw (the belief) in interactions with your parents and the belief will still be there.

For people who are predominantly emotionally kinesthetic and “felt” the belief instead of seeing it, they need to get that the events didn’t make them feel (the belief); it was the meaning they gave those events. Again, if you have the wrong source, this part of the LBP might not work.

More often than not, a belief is formed from the meaning we give to a pattern of events, such as the way mom and dad reacted when you didn’t live up to their expectations or the fact that mom and dad weren’t around very much. Not the one time you remember dad yelling or mom not being home one afternoon.

There is no way to know for sure if you have found the “real” source of a belief. One test is whether or not it feels true for you that a repeated pattern of events led you to form the belief. Another is that you need to be able to answer yes to the question: Wouldn’t most people have formed the belief you did in those same circumstances?

In other words, the events must be a logical source for a given belief.

No todays Blog appears to contradict the above ??
please explain

Rod

I mean to say in above its my old conditionings that keeps me in a negative loop.. its so stubborn and hard to eliminate.

Joyce

Always love your blog, so informative.
I want to know though, if you dont have a package for a problem I have, and yet one-one coaching is too expensive, how do you recommend I start to eliminate the belief? After reading so many of your blogs, I think my programs are more of old conditions that are very stubborn to eliminate.

What are you thoughts?
Joyce