Comments on: Can We Manifest Specific Things in Reality? “Occurring” Part 3 http://www.mortylefkoe.com/122909/ Eliminate your beliefs quickly ... Change your life permanently—Guaranteed (R) Tue, 07 Sep 2010 09:51:07 +0000 hourly 1 By: What Really Determines How We Live Our Lives? | Relationship Saver http://www.mortylefkoe.com/122909/comment-page-1/#comment-2337 What Really Determines How We Live Our Lives? | Relationship Saver Fri, 19 Mar 2010 03:03:18 +0000 http://www.mortylefkoe.com/?p=238#comment-2337 [...] con­nec­tion is, let me briefly remind you of my three posts last year on “occur­ring.” (See here) Most peo­ple are not aware that the way real­ity shows up or occurs for them is not the same as [...] [...] con­nec­tion is, let me briefly remind you of my three posts last year on “occur­ring.” (See here) Most peo­ple are not aware that the way real­ity shows up or occurs for them is not the same as [...]

]]> By: What Really Determines How We Live Our Lives? | The Relationship Saver Blog http://www.mortylefkoe.com/122909/comment-page-1/#comment-2301 What Really Determines How We Live Our Lives? | The Relationship Saver Blog Thu, 11 Mar 2010 04:41:55 +0000 http://www.mortylefkoe.com/?p=238#comment-2301 [...] con­nec­tion is, let me briefly remind you of my three posts last year on “occur­ring.” (See here) Most peo­ple are not aware that the way real­ity shows up or occurs for them is not the same as [...] [...] con­nec­tion is, let me briefly remind you of my three posts last year on “occur­ring.” (See here) Most peo­ple are not aware that the way real­ity shows up or occurs for them is not the same as [...]

]]> By: admin http://www.mortylefkoe.com/122909/comment-page-1/#comment-2202 admin Fri, 26 Feb 2010 23:52:34 +0000 http://www.mortylefkoe.com/?p=238#comment-2202 Hi Susanne, I have some hesitation in using the word "choose" because that easily leads to guilt and blame: I caused my cancer or the house to burn down. We do create our beliefs by giving meaningless events a meaning. We do choose that meaning. But for kids, it is virtually impossible to chose any other meaning. And then how things occur for us is largely (if not totally) a function of our beliefs (and conditionings). So we can choose to CHANGE our beliefs and how things occur if we are taught how, but be careful about blaming yourself for how things occur for yourself because you "chose" them. Thanks for your interest in our work and for taking the time to write. Regards, Morty Hi Susanne,

I have some hesitation in using the word “choose” because that easily leads to guilt and blame: I caused my cancer or the house to burn down.

We do create our beliefs by giving meaningless events a meaning. We do choose that meaning. But for kids, it is virtually impossible to chose any other meaning. And then how things occur for us is largely (if not totally) a function of our beliefs (and conditionings).

So we can choose to CHANGE our beliefs and how things occur if we are taught how, but be careful about blaming yourself for how things occur for yourself because you “chose” them.

Thanks for your interest in our work and for taking the time to write.

Regards, Morty

]]> By: I Had a Meltdown – Morty Lefkoe http://www.mortylefkoe.com/122909/comment-page-1/#comment-2129 I Had a Meltdown – Morty Lefkoe Tue, 16 Feb 2010 19:08:01 +0000 http://www.mortylefkoe.com/?p=238#comment-2129 [...] what I mean by “occurring”:  http://mortylefkoe.com/121509; http://mortylefkoe.com/122209; http://mortylefkoe.com/122909. [...] [...] what I mean by “occurring”:  http://mortylefkoe.com/121509; http://mortylefkoe.com/122209; http://mortylefkoe.com/122909. [...]

]]> By: susanne http://www.mortylefkoe.com/122909/comment-page-1/#comment-2095 susanne Sat, 06 Feb 2010 03:36:35 +0000 http://www.mortylefkoe.com/?p=238#comment-2095 Hi Morty -- what a very cool and very important distinction between eliminating beliefs and what I might call reactions. It seems to me that one fundamental premise in both is the issue of choice -- as in, I choose my meaning. So step 1 is really to be fully able and willing to hold your immediate reaction, whatever it may be, as the a result of a series of very rapid (largely unconscious) choices. If you are able to do that, then you can step back and make the decision (i.e., choice!) to choose differently. I do not know whether it is truly possible for most of us to "not choose" -- that is to be in the state of all possibilities on a consistent basis (and actually, even that is a choice, isn't it?). It helps to "know" at a deep level that even if you feel bugged "by" something, you chose to feel that way. You may or may not feel the need (or have the energy, or whatever) to make a different choice, but simply knowing other choices exist can shift the experience. I think practicing taking responsibility for our experience of life through conscious word choice is a pretty important aspect of being able to choose differently. Saying "I allow myself to get all frustrated in this situation" is very different than "she bugs me." Even more powerful is "I'm choosing to feel frustrated by [these events]." Another interesting aspect is that as you decide to make a different choice about the meaning of certain events, you can frequently uncover residual beliefs. If you can't get past a certain interpretation or narrow range of interpretations, it's obvious that there is some old belief/emotion/sense at work. I'm looking forward to hearing more as your class/workshop proceeds. Hi Morty — what a very cool and very important distinction between eliminating beliefs and what I might call reactions. It seems to me that one fundamental premise in both is the issue of choice — as in, I choose my meaning. So step 1 is really to be fully able and willing to hold your immediate reaction, whatever it may be, as the a result of a series of very rapid (largely unconscious) choices. If you are able to do that, then you can step back and make the decision (i.e., choice!) to choose differently. I do not know whether it is truly possible for most of us to “not choose” — that is to be in the state of all possibilities on a consistent basis (and actually, even that is a choice, isn’t it?). It helps to “know” at a deep level that even if you feel bugged “by” something, you chose to feel that way. You may or may not feel the need (or have the energy, or whatever) to make a different choice, but simply knowing other choices exist can shift the experience.

I think practicing taking responsibility for our experience of life through conscious word choice is a pretty important aspect of being able to choose differently. Saying “I allow myself to get all frustrated in this situation” is very different than “she bugs me.” Even more powerful is “I’m choosing to feel frustrated by [these events].” Another interesting aspect is that as you decide to make a different choice about the meaning of certain events, you can frequently uncover residual beliefs. If you can’t get past a certain interpretation or narrow range of interpretations, it’s obvious that there is some old belief/emotion/sense at work.

I’m looking forward to hearing more as your class/workshop proceeds.

]]> By: admin http://www.mortylefkoe.com/122909/comment-page-1/#comment-1703 admin Wed, 06 Jan 2010 00:12:47 +0000 http://www.mortylefkoe.com/?p=238#comment-1703 I think fathers should have equal rights. Do you see a connection between this issue and the blog post? Regards, Morty I think fathers should have equal rights. Do you see a connection between this issue and the blog post?

Regards, Morty

]]> By: In divorce, should the father have equal custody rights to his children? | Metaphysical Beliefs http://www.mortylefkoe.com/122909/comment-page-1/#comment-1702 In divorce, should the father have equal custody rights to his children? | Metaphysical Beliefs Tue, 05 Jan 2010 22:42:10 +0000 http://www.mortylefkoe.com/?p=238#comment-1702 [...] Can We Manifest Specific Things in Reality? “Occurring” Part 3 … [...] [...] Can We Manifest Specific Things in Reality? “Occurring” Part 3 … [...]

]]> By: admin http://www.mortylefkoe.com/122909/comment-page-1/#comment-1699 admin Tue, 05 Jan 2010 17:51:42 +0000 http://www.mortylefkoe.com/?p=238#comment-1699 Hi Doaster, Yes, #2 is similar to #1, as is #3. There are a few additional distinctions in each one as I make them. But they are all aspects of the same idea. And I probably will have at least one more post of the same subject. Thanks for reading my posts and for your comment. Regards, Morty Hi Doaster,

Yes, #2 is similar to #1, as is #3. There are a few additional distinctions in each one as I make them. But they are all aspects of the same idea. And I probably will have at least one more post of the same subject.

Thanks for reading my posts and for your comment.

Regards, Morty

]]> By: Daoster http://www.mortylefkoe.com/122909/comment-page-1/#comment-1698 Daoster Tue, 05 Jan 2010 15:56:58 +0000 http://www.mortylefkoe.com/?p=238#comment-1698 Morty, Something to ponder.. Isn't what you wrote in #1 .. the same thing as #2 but viewed from a different aspect? Best. Morty,
Something to ponder..
Isn’t what you wrote in #1 .. the same thing as #2 but viewed from a different aspect?

Best.

]]> By: admin http://www.mortylefkoe.com/122909/comment-page-1/#comment-1690 admin Tue, 05 Jan 2010 00:14:48 +0000 http://www.mortylefkoe.com/?p=238#comment-1690 Hi JW, I'm not sure what you mean when you say it didn't work for your wife. Did she eliminate any beliefs? Eliminating your own beliefs will not change your wife, although it can change how you react to your wife. No matter how your wife views you, nothing she does or says can MAKE you feel anything Only your beliefs and conditioning can do that. So the way to change how you feel about yourself--when you're with your wife or not--is to eliminate all the relevant negative beliefs. And you can find the ones you need at our store: http://recreateyourlife.com/store. Regards, Morty Hi JW,

I’m not sure what you mean when you say it didn’t work for your wife. Did she eliminate any beliefs? Eliminating your own beliefs will not change your wife, although it can change how you react to your wife. No matter how your wife views you, nothing she does or says can MAKE you feel anything Only your beliefs and conditioning can do that.

So the way to change how you feel about yourself–when you’re with your wife or not–is to eliminate all the relevant negative beliefs. And you can find the ones you need at our store: http://recreateyourlife.com/store.
Regards, Morty

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