Comments on: I Had a Meltdown

By: J Collins Meek, PhD

J Collins Meek, PhD — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 22:12:14 +0000

Hi Muffin! You are such a sweetheart. We all love you exuberantly.

Irish Blessings on YA!

Doc Meek
South Jordan, Utah, USA
Calgary and Edmonton, Alberta, Canada

By: J Collins Meek, PhD

J Collins Meek, PhD — Thu, 25 Feb 2010 21:52:06 +0000

Morty, I like your definition of Ego. You provide a clear distinction between how I think, feel, behave, etc., and who I AM, which is:

None of the above. ) Thank you!

I am grateful for your persistence in the good work you and Shelly do, helping relieve suffering comprehensively, on all four levels:

Mental, Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual.

This may be analogous to how I view inspiring learning. We learn how to learn with enthusiasm, and hence to change, when we engage ourselves and others comprehensively, on the same 4 levels (named differently):

Head, Heart, Hands, and Hope.

Doc Meek
South Jordan, Utah, USA
Calgary and Edmonton, Alberta, Canada

By: Kristin Hutchings

Kristin Hutchings — Sat, 20 Feb 2010 08:54:51 +0000

It’s always surprising to me how many things from my past (which I thought I was no longer bothered by) can by triggered by things happening in the present. It really all does seem to start with our early experiences as infants and children and because we have carried these feelings around in our subconscious for so long it can take some time to de-condition ourselves.

By: admin

admin — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 23:54:28 +0000

Hi Oliver,

We help people find the source of beliefs and feelings (and get rid of the beliefs) in our one-on-one sessions with clients over the phone. You don’t have to lie on a couch or take months to resolve issues. It usually takes a few weeks, depending on the issue.

Call us for more information, 415-456-7300.

Also, our Who Am I Really? Process helps people distinguish their Self from themselves in just a few minutes. That process is included in every program we sell.

Regards, Morty

By: Olivier

Olivier — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 23:36:38 +0000

Hello Morty,

I really connect to your idea of being able to ‘distinguish my Self from myself’.

I like the idea of implicit memory. Do you have any tips to find with no mistake the origin of our negative memory ? I’m not very fond of the idea of laying on the couch of a psychiatrist

Thanks for your therapy.

By: chrys

chrys — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 10:52:10 +0000

after pondering what it would take to really know everything about people involved in one conversation – I figured out a while ago- that you would have to be at least 5oo years old. AND you must remember that ‘perfection’ has only been attributed to ONE person in history – and they hung him (on a cross). I have just finished my B of Ed. course and woven throughout the course you are reminded that learning is ‘a lifetime pursuit’. . Happy New Year.. Love c.
P.S. My partner and i were slightly annoyed with eachother while shopping the other day – HE was wallking too fast – SHE was walking too slow !! After being aware of feelings/observing the situation a little, I realized i was wearing high heel shoes for a change. HE slowed down. SHE held his hand.

By: Muffin

Muffin — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 23:03:19 +0000

Dear Morty:
Dump her and marry me.
Muffin

By: admin

admin — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 19:40:17 +0000

Janet,

You can totally eliminate any sense of insecurity and lack of confidence by eliminating the beliefs and conditionings that cause it. We’ve had literally over a thousand people do it already. In fact we can guarantee that your insecurity will disappear if you do our Natural Confidence course. Check it out at http://recreateyourlife.com/store/natural-confidence.php. If you do try it, please let me know how you feel after you complete the program.

Thanks for the dialogue.

Regards, Morty

By: Janet

Janet — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 19:17:52 +0000

Hello again Morty,
The “it” that keeps coming up is insecurity. It shows up in so many different ways.
Your explanation of the ego, fits perfectly for my understanding. Sometimes I even think of it as an entity of it’s own. It tries so hard to take care of us and just does the opposite. Thanks again.

By: admin

admin — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 18:52:41 +0000

Hi Janet,

WHat is the “it” that keeps coming up in a different form?

Life is a process and there is always room to grow, but you can get rid of beliefs and once they are gone the problems they cause are gone forever. The same with conditionings.

There might always be more “stuff” to work on, but at least you don’t have to keep working on the same stuff over and over.

Ego is who we think we are: our beliefs and how they manifest in behavior and feelings. The ego is the “creation.” Who we really are is the creator of the creation. Consciousness.

Regards, Morty

By: admin

admin — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 18:47:58 +0000

Hi Ray,

The point is not who is right or wrong, or what should I have done, or even how I should have dealt with it. The point is that a situation triggered an implicit memory and I lost control of my feelings for a day; I had a “meltdown.” And once I figured out what was happening and why it was happening, I could do something about my upset and keep it from happening next time.

Thanks for taking the time to reply.

Regards, Morty

By: Cindy

Cindy — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 18:27:50 +0000

Good G-d! Ray is so out of touch it could be scary if it weren’t completely hilarious! You’re only 65 not 105. Quit reading novels from the 1800′s and catch up to the times. Actually this proves Morty’s point. Your comment shows the meaning you gave to your life with your wife all these years. Thanks for the laugh you made me smile today.

By: test

test — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 17:13:35 +0000

testing

By: Ray

Ray — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 16:17:30 +0000

Hi Morty
I have read your email dated Feb 16 about the situation in the car with your little argument with your wife about the neighbours parking for valentines day and I understand your description of trying to analyse the situation to a time in your childhood. I have to disagree with you
I understand the opposite sex very well and the situation in the car was not your fault
Ladies, the world over, have a habit of blowing hot and cold; One second they are laughing and happy and the next:…. Just one casual comment from their partner and they can make an issue of that situation and blow it right out of proportion.
During these moments I find the best thing to do is to say nothing at all and to let her continue to talk with herself
Ever since Eve bit into the apple, life has been the same so not to worry
I believe that this is due to every womans hormone balance and possibly timing of her periods that this plays a contibuting part to the mood swings and rational thinking of women as a whole and to realise that every single woman in this world can be effected by this
So my advice would be to buy your wife a nice box of chocolates and kiss and make up
Just for the record I’m an experienced 65 year old man with two daughters and five grandchildren
Keep smiling and good luck

Kind regards

Ray Thorp from the UK

By: Janet

Janet — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 15:30:40 +0000

It really is an ongoing process. One would think ( or hope) that if we just did the work once , it would all be fixed and healed. It just keeps coming up again in another form. Fascinating! Our self-esteem is just so tender and at the route of it all. Monty, I would love to know your definition of our ego and it’s purpose in our lives. Thanks for all of your great therapy.

By: dave schmidt

dave schmidt — Wed, 17 Feb 2010 14:48:48 +0000

wow is this work?? tG4comunication, ps I can Park Cars 4 u or Tell em to walk… ty